Freitag, 26. Januar 2018

Lana Silverberg: Elite Dominatrix and Courtesan

Lana Silverberg
Lana Silverberg offers the best of both worlds: She dominates slaves as an Elite Dominatrix, but she is also an exciting Courtesan. The beautiful and sophisticated woman from Stockholm loves to travel the world. Find out more about this unique Lady in this interview. 


Lady Sas: Dear Lana, on your Twitter account you describe yourself as an "Elite Dominatrix and Courtesan, International Travel Companion, Tease & Denial Goddess". How did this all start? What's your story?
Lana Silverberg: I had fantasies about being a courtesan long before I took steps to become one. I explored the power of my sexuality and discovered the pleasure of participating in taboo encounters. I thrived on the rush, the thrill. Soon after, I started to offer courtesan services to men and enjoyed it more and more. I like to be in control. I like to be the one who leads the session, and I enjoy taking care of a man in that sense. I love teasing, playing, providing deep and penetrating eye contact that teases a man until he's frustrated and eager. That is such a turn on for me! Bringing out my wild side helped turn my sessions more and more playful and intense. Then I discovered toys, floggers, and bondage. At the same time, many of my clients wanted to spice up our dates with light dominance and my wild side was given more space to play.


Interview with Lana Silverberg, Elite Dominatrix and Courtesan


Lana Silverberg
Lady Sas: As a Courtesan you offer sexual pleasure. On the other hand, you dominate men as a Dominatrix. Why don't you choose just one of these worlds?

Lana Silverberg: I enjoy playing with a variety of erotic pleasures. Variation keeps things both spicy and sweet. I get to enjoy my soft, sensitive side and kick it up a notch with kinky play, too. Sometimes, I'm the bridge for beginners to BDSM. Many of my clients who first met me as a courtesan have gone on to explore fantasies that they did not know they had.


Lady Sas: Most Dominatrixes tease their slaves with their body – but a slave can never have them. You don't follow this concept, as you offer the unique Girlfriend Experience (GFE). Of course: You can do this, sure. But could you explain your idea or feeling behind this?

Lana Silverberg: I like to explore erotic play in different ways. I crave variety, and role-playing different scenarios is a great way to get that. My idea is to be a guide for my guests. I guide them toward their and my pleasurable sensations. Sometimes frustration can also be pleasurable. I like to experiment with my lovers and slaves to find out what makes them tick. I enjoy being the confident, dominant girlfriend as well as a cruel dominatrix. My lover or slave can choose his fantasies/interests from my list, and I will create a session that fulfills both his and my desires.

Lady Sas: Are there guests who mix these two worlds? For example, first they meet the Dominatrix and then the Courtesan?

Lana Silverberg: Yes! There are lots of possibilities when picking the best from these words. First, a cruel Dominatrix who challenges my guests with lots of teasing, denial, and pain, but then moves to a more intimate and erotic experience to ease them back down. I've also done the opposite. First, the sweet and innocent girl who seduces a man and later takes advantage of him. There are lots of possibilities to explore that dynamic.


Lana Silverberg: "I'm always ready for an adventure" 


Lady Sas: I see on Twitter that you travel the world. Singapore, Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane... How many suitcases did you take? And when will you come home to Stockholm?

Lana Silverberg: I have two suitcases and only one-way tickets so far. I'm always ready for an adventure. Travelling and excitement are in my blood.


Lady Sas: What do you love about travelling?

Lana Silverberg: When I travel, there's an intense stimulation of all my senses, inspiring environments, delicious and decadent foods. I love to explore new cultures and arts. All of this gives me new ideas for play time and even more erotic experiences.


Lady Sas: Did you have an interesting experience or observation on your journey you want to share with us?

Lana Silverberg: In my experience, I've noticed that people who choose to live out their fantasies and explore taboos in a consensual setting tend to become healthier, happier, and more satisfied. That's a big deal in today's repressed society, and learning to let go, release control, and simply be in the moment under the cruel and attentive hands of your Dominatrix or courtesan can be a wonderfully stress-relieving experience.


Lady Sas: Where do you play when you are travelling? Do you rent a dungeon?

Lana Silverberg: I rent various locations in central parts of the city. Something easy to find and not too far out of the way. A place where my guests can feel safe and secure. Their anonymity and privacy are my top concerns, of course. Choosing a place in the middle of a bustling city lets us hide in plain sight, as they say.

Lana Silverberg: "Humans are humans"

Lana Silverberg

Lady Sas: You have played with subs all over the world. Are there any differences?
Lana Silverberg: Humans are human, no matter where they hail from. We all have needs, desires, and fantasies. Where you were born or where you live now doesn't necessarily change who you are at your core. So, no. There isn't much difference in the human condition from one country to the next.


Lady Sas: A question for the Tease & Denial Goddess. What is it that turns you on about this?
Lana Silverberg: Frustration in his eyes drives me wild. When he is hard and he can tolerate more pain, when he's begging for more, that's when I'm at the height of my arousal. When I am in control, it's fun to play with sexual energy, to build up a sexual tension, make it grow, make him hard and eager. When he is close to culmination, I like to take it very slow. I'll reject him for a while and then play again. Frustration can enhance pleasure beyond your wildest dreams, when handled properly.

Lana Silverberg about the BDSM-Scene in Stockholm


Lady Sas: What can you tell us about the BDSM-scene in Stockholm?
Lana Silverberg: The BDSM scene in Stockholm has been growing over the last few years and dominant ladies are in high demand. People are becoming more open to the idea of relinquishing control and exploring deeper parts of their sexuality. There's an awakening happening, and I'm thrilled to be a part of it.


Lady Sas: Lana, what do you do in your spare time?
Lana Silverberg: I read books, play with my girlfriends and dance. I love being outdoors and connecting with nature. Sensual and pleasurable experiences are all around us, we just have to be willing to be open to them.



Lady Sas: Final question. What are your plans for the future?
Lana Silverberg: I have been having an amazing time exploring the world and myself, and I have no intentions of stopping now. I plan to continue my exploration of more ways to spice up my everyday life, my play time, and my experiences in the world meeting new people.



Lady Sas: Thank you for your time, Lana.



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